Dear Mama KiKi,

Help! We are having trouble understanding what the big deal is about having frequent sex partners! We are looking forward to hearing your answer.

Three Friends

Dear Friends,

Oh! Why me? This answer gets me in trouble every time. There are so many points of view and all of them are right to whomever owns that point of view. Mine is only one. Please remember that when you decide to rebut mine.

Aside from the usual stuff about diseases (I do hope you were listening in health class that day) there are huge spiritual ramifications. First and most important, when two people have sex they are mingling their souls. You need to take a look at that person and ask yourself, "Do I want to mingle my soul with this soul?" It's not as simple as it seems. It's not just for that moment, it's for a long time. Some metaphysical experts believe that a man having sex with a woman draws her energy for up to 5 years. Talk about the ultimate psychic vampire!

Whether I agree with these experts or not, I have to say for sure that although there are hundreds of ways of making a soul tie, old sexual partners is the number one reasons that people come to me for cord cuttings.

Speaking of cord cuttings, each time we have sexual relations with someone for the first time we create what is called a soul tie or as some call it, psychic tie. To a psychic who has second sight, the ties appear like cords attached to your physical body but in fact are attached to your etheric body. Some cords are thicker than others. It is important to have these cords cut by someone who does cord cuttings or cut them yourself after a relationship is over. Sex of course is not the only way to make soul ties but is certainly the most common and the most emotionally painful.

I have so much more input but you asked me for spiritual facts and not the rest of my opinions (you know what they say about opinions). Above all, decide what is right for you and let no one else tell you what is right.

Love and Light

Mama KiKi